Why Shoulder Season is an introvert’s best friend

A winter adventure in Dubrovnik

The Staircase from Cercei’s Walk of Shame and its only visitor

The One Thing We Didn’t Plan For in the Off Season: Dinner!

Quiet Streets, Empty Walls, and Cat Companions

⚠️ Disadvantages of Shoulder Season Travel

5. Quiet Might Feel Too Quiet
While peace and calm are great, some travelers may find the lack of buzz a bit lonely. It can also be isolating, depending on the destination and personal preference. I typically enjoy having spaces to myself, but sometimes a little buzz might be nice as well. So, if you prefer a middle ground, consider traveling at the start or end of the peak season. The crowds are already getting lighter then, which might be more appealing.

Advantages of Shoulder Season Travel

But for me the advantages clearly outweigh the disadvantages:

1. Fewer Crowds
You won’t be elbowing your way through packed tourist sites. Perfect for introverts or those who get overwhelmed in busy environments. We were able to take our time. We had a lot of space to ourselves. We enjoyed the museums without having to push through them.

2. Lower Prices
Flights, accommodations, and tours are often cheaper than in peak season. Additionally, you might score upgrades or better rooms simply because places aren’t full.

3. Milder Weather
Shoulder seasons (usually spring and autumn) often offer pleasant, moderate temperatures. Not too hot, not too cold — just right for walking, exploring, or relaxing. As I am running hot quite easily, I enjoy traveling a lot more when the temperatures are more moderate. The winter months in this area of the world are beautiful, if sometimes rainy.

4. Better Photos and Less Overstimulation
Fewer people in your photos and quieter surroundings make it easier to enjoy the moment. This is especially important if you’re sensory-sensitive or love slow travel. This is actually what drives me again and again to explore more touristy sights during shoulder or off season.

Traveling during shoulder season might not offer the perfect postcard weather or a buzzing nightlife. It sometimes does, but that’s more luck than anything else. But exactly this is what makes it so special for me. So, if you are an introvert like me or if you look for a calmer, more intentional experience, this is it. The streets are quieter, the pace is slower, and the space to simply be feels more available. Yes, it may take a bit more planning (and the occasional long walk to find an open restaurant). But the trade-off is often a richer, more peaceful connection with the place you’re visiting.

Got a favorite off-season gem or a shoulder-season story of your own? Drop it in the comments—I’m always collecting slow travel secrets. Or just whisper it into the wind… who knows, I might still hear you.

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